What Do l Want?

What do l want for me,….for you?What l  want is more than a wish, much more than a desire ,it is a life-string. A string tied strongly ,unbreakable,  to mental , physical and spiritual wellbeing. A life that is financially stable. A sober mind that can create wealth so as to have a solid roof over my head, a daily meal, medical care and education  for my family, and a secure and friendly,helpful, community .l also want healthy work and family relationships. I want to be involved in society productive projects that cater for a much more cleaner environment on our planet.

I want dignity to be the key in the way we communicate with one another.Nations where leaders and all those in positions of power listen in order to understand the grassroot problems, and they also perceive  their positions as being persons of service. As an individual, l want to be free and responsible . l want to be consciously aware at all times, that my actions today have  either negative or positive consequences and that they affect not only me but the whole. world.Hence, l want   joyful experiences during  my lifetime. I believe this is What We All Want:-,,Pleasant Experiences”. This means being heard, included,acknowledged,appreciated, and above all this not lacking . A dignified life-string follows the golden principle at all times, regardless and says;”l Do Unto Another  As l Would Want It Done Unto Me”.It is a universal-inclusion vision and mission.



Did you know that your perception gathers a lot of evidence to make beliefs right?

Do you know that your stronger than you think ,if only you could give yourself permission to see the brighter side of life?

If my perception of life is Good things can come from a Bad situation then Fear erodes and what happens is ,,Death,,becomes an inevitable part of life and not an accident,,,or maybe if l had….kind of blame .

I might not be making sense but the fact is we are here for s short spell.Let’s live consciously responsible about ourselves,what we say and do to others.Above all ,,Do Not Be Afraid ,l Am With You;Do Not Be Terrified,l Am Your God”

(Isaiah 41:10a)

Trusting good times will come after the bad times for everybody!


“If It Were Me?”

“If it were me, l….would..l could..” A common statement in our daily conversations.Spoken from a superior position of comparison, based from an assumption  and thought that one is better , or can do better, than another. Moreover,in direct confrontation , in most cases  not spoken very kindly .Other times ,it  happens behind the accused person’s back. The latter by any defination is gossip.

Reflecting on this habit ,l admit l am  often  guilty of  , l decided l needed to discard it from today.From a point of love l  have share what l call my self-therapy tips:

▪︎Identify the thought  whose main source is usually envy or jealousy.

▪︎Recognize it for what it is. A reflection of a past .Bygone.

▪︎Adjust this behaviourial talk with an action.The Move.

▪︎Create a new idea ,a  new object or job or whatever  it is that “If it were me….l would…could have…”Replace through creation.

▪︎Be in the present.See all,we,us  at all times .Consciously, be kind to myself, as l would wish others to be to me .Ask myself  Always The Big Q? Why? Is it Necessary ?


A Big Hug of Love.



I Thought l knew but realised l didn’t .

Thought l had been there but l hadn’t .

Thought they were my friends but they weren’t

Thought l cared but acknowledged l didn’t

Thought l was in a safe place but l wasn’t

If only our thoughts were perfect speculations!

If only what l thought turned out the way l thought it would

“But life does not work like that”.

Our thoughts are limited by how much we think we know.

So from today l will start with new thoughts of “l don’t know!”

I will allow myself to be curious.

I will be open to learn new ways even if l am a little scared.

I will go out of my way to meet new people even though l am skeptical and scarred.

I will travel to new places  even though doom thoughts want me to stay in my comfort zone.

Yes !My dear thoughts ,l am only human,living within a limited Time frame on this planet ,so Lets Explore.

Wow!these thoughts  were emancipating


Give Yourself A Break

Life can be perfectly,perfect.Firstly,let’s recognise our uniqueness and dignified selves.Secondly,we can reasonably accept that we are complex.We also live in a world with many irregularities ,which we experience on a daily basis.Thirdly;a  pure fact :as human beings we are not Robots.We are quite unpredictable,and even suprise ourselves most of the time.We are also capable of carrying many burdens,  from the past, that we constantly allow to define our present or have an effect on our tomorrow.What l suggest is a different outlook, reflecting on the fact that since every day is a new day why not adopt a  robust ,curious ,joyful anticipation in life.?Note ,every single  day we travel to  somewhere else ,sometimes new ,if not physically ,then in our minds .With our imaginations we can create new realities.This possibility as co-creators of changing ourselves and having diverse experiences ,makes us all unique individually and collectively .It gives us the opportunity to celebrate and  take the time and space to make concrete ,personal decisions.

Say; “No !l refuse to be my own worst enemy .l choose to be my own Best Friend”.Let’s stop beating ourselves,especially in our minds, with our thoughts.Why ?For the simple reason that doing so is violating your own right ,your  sanity, stability, worth and value.Look for quiet alone moments :seek and listen .Although ,there is too much surrounding loudness you do not have to allow it all in.The,good news ,we get to choose what we listen to ,who we associate with,where to go and so on…(watch,read,etc). It is self-manageable by getting our priorities right.”How do l want to serve? “This question answered with the answer beginning with “Why?….”will bring the beginning of clarity  to your life ,The answer can only only come from with.Seek no validation:Give it a try.In addition ,this is my personal chosen path;l do seek a lot of guidance  in quiet,alone time from The Source .The Power That Be.The Most High.For in Universal Mighty God l recieve my guidance, Joy and Peace.

Hugs & Love