“TOLERANCE” has a hidden ,inferiority meaning; “PITY”. A tolerant attitude is not what l want when l am doing my job.I need recognition and to be credited for my work ,or discredited.Corrected if l have erred .Not so long ago ,there was a cry for tolerance to the great influx of migrants seeking refuge for all the valid reasons into Europe.The migration continues, and will continue, because migration is as old as after creation day.It is not unique to Europe or America only.In fact every country on the globe has its share of migrants. To migrate is natural, an in born right for people to move from one continent to another:”Crossing borders in search of Dignity”.Dignity is the right to be heard,be seen, earn a living , pay taxes and live safely.Being human.Why is the term “tolerate” mean?It is a diminishing word by usage in reference to the expected treatment of migrants. Its implication is the newcomer has nothing to give ,but is there to be helped.Questions to reflect on:Does not cultural diversity play a more positive role?Don`t both parties benefit?The attitude of tolerating has a degree of prejudice.(one is more superior,the helper) .The lesser is in larger terms not expected to add to the growth of the nation as a whole ,or the well being of others.Who decides what is perfect ? The word tolerance should be completely erased in our human interactions.Let us be more inclusive in the creation of our systems.I say again :”Do not tolerate me.Do not pity me.Let us embrace one another,exchange stories,allow travel or migration.”
You have to follow the Gaze.You know what you want.Basically,we all want the Best for us.The Problem arises because we do not trust ourselves enough to think we have a solution. The Solution is not visible because we spend too much of our time and energy in Comparison Mode .This sucks up our energy from that which we can naturally resonate with.We get too distracted,lose confidence in and direction in the process. We reach confusion point, having an internal war from within.To cool it off we go into denial and slowly move into self-destructive habits. We have all been there in different ways.If this is you today,you do not have to stay there.Now is the hour to change!Make a conscious decision to seriously follow your gaze,online and offline, those or that ,which Builds You.Be Cautious of the time, money and energy spent in your interactions. It MUST Be for your Benefit first.This is the only way you can give others your Best because you are at Your Best.It is not always about finances ,or material things,it is All about what you do with what you have NOW! Feed your inner you with the Best for the Best reasons.
If you read to the End l know something ticked you,Go for it!Don’t question it!Follow your gaze!❤
Peace does not just happen! It comes as an intentional thought that precedes an action.Caring is sharing :Self-awareness tips.
•Find a quiet place ,for at least 5 minutes a day, to have a conversation with yourself.
•Breathe deep,slowly, in and out at least to a count of 7x
•Identify the dis- content with self by asking yourself questions:,”when did l start experiencing this unease ?one day,a week,a month ago?When exactly?Be specific.
3.Identify by Name….Ask yourself ;”Where was l?””Who was l with?” “What were we doing ?”and “What were we discussing?”
(chats /activities could have been offline or online in a group chat ,sms, video talk, meeting etc ).
The answers will be very helpful and allow us to see the why and what that triggered the emotion .Our well-being must be top priority,especially during these volatile times.We are social beings but this time be your own best friend in private conversation with you.
This exercise might end with worrying ,please remember:
If you feel like crying it is normal and it brings relief.Important is you take action. Do not dwell on the issue at great length.If it is draining your energy, please seek help . At no cost should you try to go at it alone ,for fear of shame or guilt.Many have travelled a similar path and are now free.
You are a child of dignity and this is the truth.This world needs you.You are worthy and valuable to mother Earth, our planet.Afresh!Anew Cheers!
Big Hug of Love
Africa is a continent.
It is Beautiful,Vibrant,Abundant.
Africa Has Everything It needs to Survive,Thrive ,Name it she has It.
Mother Africa is the Pearl of this World.We Love HER.
WE Celebrate HER as WE Lift HER towards PEACE.
Let HER Joy Be HER Bond to her Children scattered all over the Earth
What do l want in life ?It is a very profound question because life has many sides .However,as l grow older, especially after the age of 50 and now 60 ,all l want is peace.l do not want peace for myself only ,No!l want peace for all of us and in everything around us.l would be extremely happy and content if l knew that no human being on earth is sleeping hungry, or out in the cold.l want a world where there is love in the homes, and children are not violated nor exposed to violence on the streets. I want to see a world where people migrate, not because there is war ,drought or joblessness but because they choose to.Because ,it is their right to move around,to explore,to trade and interact .What do l want? I want my right to live ,work and love where and who l choose.l want peace and no war.l want to be content because my neighbour is content too.l want our future generation to be allowed to fully express their creativity, be allowed to be innovative and to be mentored as well as heard.l want governments that are structured to guarantee that no child is born or grows up in poverty.l want to be a part of that movement of bringing peace and joy as was part of our nature once upon a time ,lived by our indigenous societies amongst our forefathers and mother Queens want humans to live in humane conditions all over the globe .Period!
Big Hug of One Love