“If It Were Me?”

“If it were me, l….would..l could..” A common statement in our daily conversations.Spoken from a superior position of comparison, based from an assumption  and thought that one is better , or can do better, than another. Moreover,in direct confrontation , in most cases  not spoken very kindly .Other times ,it  happens behind the accused person’s back. The latter by any defination is gossip.

Reflecting on this habit ,l admit l am  often  guilty of  , l decided l needed to discard it from today.From a point of love l  have share what l call my self-therapy tips:

▪︎Identify the thought  whose main source is usually envy or jealousy.

▪︎Recognize it for what it is. A reflection of a past .Bygone.

▪︎Adjust this behaviourial talk with an action.The Move.

▪︎Create a new idea ,a  new object or job or whatever  it is that “If it were me….l would…could have…”Replace through creation.

▪︎Be in the present.See all,we,us  at all times .Consciously, be kind to myself, as l would wish others to be to me .Ask myself  Always The Big Q? Why? Is it Necessary ?


A Big Hug of Love.

an encounter with God, TrailBlazers Series

Doors of Life.

The function of a door is to either close behind or to open,and allow us to go inside the space .However , humans are curious beings and rightfully so .We are here on Planet Earth to dwell and joyfully serve. Therefore,when one door closes stop trying to push it so hard.Take time to reflect on “Why ….?”.If you can not find an answer Move On. There are plenty of other Doors . Some Door even has a special key with your name on it .That Door is waiting For You To Turn The Key and  Walk into Your Purpose.In that space of opportunities are many. You will recognise it.You will know from your heart and mind combined.It will not feel strange even though it might be somewhat competitive.As a normal person, you will most probably experience creeping thoughts to take flight or start a judgemental  fight.DON’T! Remind ,yourself who you are.We are co-creators ,divine spirits having physical experiences on Mother Earth.

It is your natural, inherent right to worth and value.Walk through the door majestically knowing The Universe has your back and Gods grace is With You always.

A Big Hug of Love

an encounter with God, TrailBlazers Series

Like A Child l Will.

We have been taught that behaving like a child is a stupid ,shameless behaviour.

Is it really ?All children ask questions like “Why?”.When you ask them to do something they sometimes even  go further to ask “Why me ?Why not my sibling ?” Young ones are curious beings and seek to find meaning in their observations;”What is that ? “They also good listeners to the various sounds around them .They live more in the present moments using their eyes distinctly to identify things without much judgements. Everywhere and everything in their close environment interests them.

On this issue of childishness in adults, l noted that  the ancient religious teachings and the practices of meditation and yoga,all stress on the habit of listening more.The Bible talks about children as innocent beings who will enter heaven.Children unless taught otherwise play,laugh and embrace life fully.

What do you think now? Is being childlike in life a stupid and shameful character?Does it give you a more stressful life or more joy and friendliness?

My choice from now on is to be childlike in my interactions and intentionally acknowledge l really do not know as much as l think l do.l will be kinder to myself and embrace all life .l will enquire  about nature taking notice of all the natural beauty and creations that  surround me. Learning to ask the questions “Why”and “What and being joyful ,smiling and laughing more is by new childish attitude.

A Big Hug and Love Dear Child

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Did l Neglect Myself?

In  a world where we are bombarded with so many advertisements ,posts ,and new information , it can get confusing. by the end of the day, when one may ask oneself;”What did l    do with today or yesterday?”” What shift did l create?”.A more  crazier question could be “Did l neglect myself?”

“Did l really see myself?…if l did,with what kind of eyes?..from whose perspective?”.This is one of the most compassionate inner self questions; self-talk ,self-love ,self-care or whatever we call it .We feel guilty,shy or ashamed to even discuss it this issue lest we are seen as egoistical .Yet, it is important for self-assessment in order to improve ourselves .

“They can’t see you if you don’t see yourself “

“Self-Therapy” can be  a realistic approach to end up sane and eradicate issues of low self -esteem. Promoting oneself with confidence as equally as one promotes others .This article reminds us that we have a  choice.We have a right and duty to share our products, services ,success stories and challenges.

Sharing is Caring. Treating one another as worthy to be heard and understood is our dignified new attitude.As we walk on the planet let’s respect it ,knowing we were born to live and thrive on it wherever we choose .The world is  rich ,immensely vibrant and niether  stagnant or dull .Human  beings are the same,full of energy. However , when creativity is suppressed  disillusionment and all sorts of illnesses set in, including rebellious behaviourial patterns.It is not fair to The Universe to selfishly cave and bury our gifts,abilities and exceptional vibes without sharing them for the benefit of  the Whole .US .You and me .

A Big Hug of Love to You.


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Inclusion vs Exclusion

Every human being  has the power of choice when it comes to excluding or including.Inclusiveness  is a choice that leads to an orientation.It is seen in  terms of whom we choose to include in our various activities, schools,jobs,parties,holidays, relationships,infact,in  our entire lives .When we practice inclusitivity ,we make very definate,calculated,conscious decisions to leave out ,deny or dismiss .There are many  consequences to  exclusion , the most dangerous is aversions, towards the  identified religions, races,genders,communities ,countries and continents.It is this observation  that has propelled me to take a very conclusive stand from a mind-set of  oneness.”All-Inclusitivity“. This might be percieved as an utopian idea .However, l have chosen to adapt and live with A Heaven on Earth mentality.Having re-examined my beliefs  I asked ;“Who decides Whom to include, Where,When ,Why and How?“The  answer is “You”do.We each have an inherent right to worth and value .Nobody has a right to make choices on other adults behalf .Each must take the reins  of their lifestyle and orient themselves  in  a direction that does not harm,discriminate,segregate ,dominate or manipulate.My life choices are to serve and protect this planet and its creations.I put no expectations on anybody.Through writing ,I am simply expressing and experiencing inclusivitivity in this infinite space. There are no limitations and in my perception  there  is enough for ALL of us. We are living in awesome times and we can allow ourselves to be curious and explore the vastness of this planet.The Universe is wise and compassionate if we surrender to each present moment ,the here and now. There are enough resources , especially the human resources and the  land to fill and till. There is really no need for the fights. The obssession with country boundries and thus dangers to the migrants is creating more damage and waste than good.(topic for another article …)Pausing , to listen more closely and observe more keenly,will help us all understand more deeply just how we are so interwined and none is the lesser or greater.We will be able to see the infinite possibilities available to all of us . Letting go of mediocre thoughts  based on  superiority and inferiority complexes will be a part of our healing process in embracing  inclusitivity . ONENESS=INCLUSITIVITY=WE

A Big Hug of Love to You