What do you understand by the term Self-identity?Or,instead of complicating matters,why don’t l address the question to myself.This question tends to spring into my mind every time l am in one of my low “discouraged-good-for-nothing-can-never-do-it-right”moods.l ,like many of you am sure,tend to link self-identity issues with career,financial status,social standing ,and ,comparing ourselves with others.l am being very vulnerable,because l want once and for all, to remove that villain inside me that has got the whole issue mixed up and tends to bring me down.That accuser that makes me feel guilty about past wrongs,failures or whatever it calls them ,those” shame-on-you-blamings”.In this world which moves at an alarmingly fast pace,if l do not take time to self-reflect about exactly who l am, and, what l am here on earth to do,l will be run over,rolled on over by disilluisonary conclusions about my self-identity.Therefore,l have decided to address and identify exactly “who am l?”.l vow to stick to my decision henceforth,regardless of what anybody else on this planet earth tells me,thinks or says behind my back.
Okay this is MY Story,my Reality and my Conclusions.So whom am l?l am a beautiful,loving,caring,human being who is trying to do her best to the best of her capabilities.l am not here to oppress or to compete with anybody .l do not want to hurt or wrong you.l want to do what is right for this planet ,for us.l want to utilise my co-creation powers, given to me by The Universal Divine Power, to make this world as clean and co-habitable as possible.This l believe is the reason l am here on earth at this space l am right now.
A new revelation is that l will start living in the present ; the “here and now”,taking those steps towards shinning a light of joy wherever l go.l will avoid grumbling,complaining and gossiping.l will do my best to discard my self-damaging excessive habits .l will give more and do it joyfully with no judgemental expectations.My path is defined and as l hit that beautiful age of 60 years next week,if it is so destined for me to see that date, l will leap with a grateful heart.
My greatest passions are reading,writing,researching ,motivating and bringing people together for whatever l forsee or view as a good cause.l love sharing and inspiring and l will continue to do so shamelessly without looking over my shoulder , doubting myself or over-thinking about the outcome.l am grateful for this new liberated mind ,a positive trailblazer mentality. l celebrate and l am grateful for this clarity and bright light of believing in myself.
Hugs and Love to You.