Celebrating Three African Queens on Mother`s Day

I dedicate this day to the three women who loved me unconditionally. First and foremost, l celebrate the late Grace Nduta Gathea. I feel your presence every day . You remain the best mom in my life. You had a heart of gold, and your legacy lives on in our children and grandchildren. You remain a role model of a strong single mother who gave us the best of the best. I will forever treasure your memory. Your angelic presence will always be there for me and Nancy “Kiki” and our wonderful children and grandchildren. Secondly,l celebrate two African queens; my two grandmothers, the late Charity Wairimu Njai and  The late Joyce Nyambura Gathea. You were the most caring and hardworking women that ever lived. My wonderful Angelic kin, may your souls continue to rest in eternal peace till we meet again. Amen


an encounter with God, Self-Therapy

Tested but not Defeated Yet.

“It`s the thought that counts!”. We hear this all the time,and say it unconsciously.Having reflected on it often in recent months, l have since added to my conscious beliefs list.Thought is everything. l mean everything.Thoughts are the very ignition key to your next action.Through your very thoughts, ideas of innovation and creativity flow.In modern times ,we are now beginning to deliberately adapt as truths what our fore-fathers taught us;”our thoughts create our reality.” When we were children we often exclaimed in disbelief ;”My Wish Has Come True”.Staying awake and alert to our thoughts is important.Carefully and constantly checking requires discipline, time,energy and using up even external resources to ensure control. It is worth every single dime,minute and milestone.It is both empowering and liberating.What are your thoughts right now?Are you aware of what role they play in your responses?Take a moment and desire to be in total control and to maintain that power of control over your thoughts.Start by deliberately choosing what you read,who you interact with ,and examine your emotions by checking up and starring those things,places or persons that trigger you off negatively ,in ways that are not beneficial to you or others.Have a Great month of December,2020.

an encounter with God, Invisible Migrants, The Unheard/Unseen

Get A Gift

The Thoughts we dwell are manifested and exposed in our emotional responses and physical actions.Why doesn’t our modern educational systems teach us this from grade one? These teachings were embodied in our ancestral, cultural and spiritual traditions,but buried to disable the majority for the benefit of the few. But now all that ,using modern technology and invested time we can all re-learn ,rebuild ,revive and be restored again . The Wisdom is available to each and everyone of us if we seek,knock and ask.

How?Moving from an invisible migrant to a perfect, visible migrant was a gift, enabled by deliberately dwelling on The Wisdom in a beautiful Verse in The Holy Word.

“Every Good Gift And Every Perfect Gift Is FROM ABOVE, and Comes Down From THE FATHER OF LIGHTS,With WHOM There is NO Variation or Shadow of Turning.”(James 1:17)

Having No doubt on this Spiritual Truth. Will You Trust Too?

an encounter with God, Invisible Migrants, Self-Therapy

The Phase not the Face

The ,,FACE “or Image is what captivates an audience to a post.The Why is the Message.This caption has an image meant to be a Redflag. An awareness pre-caution in this speedy life .A personal check-up:What Face are you portraying out there on Social Media?Is it Authentic? Does it portray a “PHASE”of where you are in your life of growth or decline?

Going inwards periodically is wise.Are you in a stable phase where you are giving value and receiving value too?If you are giving what you do not have, on borrowed time and money ,you will be sad,sick, disappointed ,feel neglected, be manipulated and above all wasted in the competitive ,people pleasing process. Seek guidance from  within, in silence breaks, for Divine breakthroughs.

an encounter with God, Self-Therapy, Uncategorized

Because It’s Time

What l have always thought was Love has been  messing parts of  my wellbeing.(l am not  talking about intimate love) .Relationship loves in my daily life as a parent sister, friend, relative, co-worker or new found love.l can no longer accept my old false beliefs about a love that confuses being misused,dominated and manipulated as caring and sharing.A love that drain’s one slowly but surely.With all due respect  ,l am fed up of learning the truth after the fact of hurt and burnout.What is Love?Love is freedom. Love is loving The Most High, Ngai wakwa ,my Source of life first. Secondly Love is embracing ,and cherishing with gratitude myself. Kujieshimu na Kujipenda ;”Self-Love”means l am no longer accepting the things l can not change such as people’s habits and behaviours that are harmful to my sanity.l am changing the things l can not accept any more in my life such as my illogical self-criticisms. Kujidharu ,founded on my wrong  judgements.l intend to love myself unconditionally through self-care in all areas of my life: the physical, emotional,financial,and spiritual. I recognize my duty from Source and l will be very  deliberate unapologetically in exercising it.A great promise is written down for me too l claim. “For l know the plans l have for you “declares The Lord.”Plans to prosper you and not to harm you….”.

(Jeremiah 29:11)

Liberating Love.