I Thought l knew but realised l didn’t .

Thought l had been there but l hadn’t .

Thought they were my friends but they weren’t

Thought l cared but acknowledged l didn’t

Thought l was in a safe place but l wasn’t

If only our thoughts were perfect speculations!

If only what l thought turned out the way l thought it would

“But life does not work like that”.

Our thoughts are limited by how much we think we know.

So from today l will start with new thoughts of “l don’t know!”

I will allow myself to be curious.

I will be open to learn new ways even if l am a little scared.

I will go out of my way to meet new people even though l am skeptical and scarred.

I will travel to new places  even though doom thoughts want me to stay in my comfort zone.

Yes !My dear thoughts ,l am only human,living within a limited Time frame on this planet ,so Lets Explore.

Wow!these thoughts  were emancipating

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Your User’s Manual

Have you checked in today on your”User’s Manual”?What’s that you ask?That is your emotions and feelings towards work?When we talk about work,we are discussing general work ,office work,homework whatever work you are doing now,today.There is a great tip l want to share because it worked for me the whole week and presently,as l do my work which is writing.

Tip:Do it joyfully.Adjust your mood and attitude to whatever work you are doing.Why?This new way of replacing boredom with curiosity.Tiring with interesting.Apreciating your work changes everything.Your inner spirit will be uplifted .This will reflect in your physical posture,walk,the tone of your voice and your facial expressions.Work mates,your spose  or children will  respond  in a like manner.The enviroment around you will change from a gloomy one to one full of hope and brightness.You will be more inclined to more creative and innovate .Try it out and see the results.Have a great day!


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Life is full of lessons.Infact ,in life we are virtually in classrooms.We upgrade the older we get.What we see as mistakes are misguided chapters in our life -line:our destined journey

I have learnt a beautiful lesson in the last few months.Accept the so calles mis-takes .The word itself clearly spells it out as Missed takes,that is stepped on the wrong path and got diverted, distracted from your destined journey. Beware ,there are two options Either re-trace the steps or move forward alert and carefully observing where you  are going.Embrace the emotions, listen to your instincts and of course use learned lessons stored in your mind.Have a great day as you give yourself a break. Nothing is lost.Its the past.Now be present in the moment, and  you will not miss your take.

Hugs and plenty of love

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Behind the Chatter

Beneath the chatter ,

After the Image posts,What remains ? Nothing .Only a Clutter of Emotions.Amidst the Likes and the Down-thumbs,Mind moving  into Commotion gear,Body breaking into a sweat,Heart beat accerating ,racing,Fingers Scrolling fast and hard,looking for a smilie a a.. haha, a love sign.Validation.

“Was l GOOD Enough Today ?”

Yes Sweetheart .You were better than Yesterday, .You are Good Enough Now!Relax .Stay Calm and Balanced by clicking Off the Panic button.Well done!

Hugs & Love

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The Angst of Publishing

Finding my purpose has never been a big issue.I have always loved reading and writing and therefore always aspired to be a writer.However,like many of us our dreams remained just”Dreams”. But due to second chances in life ,plus self-development courses l have chosen to pursue my life career.My defined purpose would be accomplished through the work of research and community reporting.My mission would be fulfilled through digital storytelling, featured articles or blog posts based on  real life stories in the communities .The sole purposes being that  of inspiring ,educating, encouraging and creating dignity awareness.


You may be wondering what is the problem here?The dilemma  is the Angst of Publishing.

  • 1.Perfectionist idiotism:-Basically this is my self-imposed restraint from publishing unless  my work is totally perfect.The best and the most captivating headlines and perfectly recorded videos.Aperfectly, unique writing style and with no chance of .
  • 2.Fear of Living A Destitute Life:-As much as l love writing,l personally lacked a dedicated trust in the career.I have always felt that l could not even mildly,be able to sustain myself in it.I convinced myself that l was not skilled or  good enough, nor adequately exposed to the world”circle” of writers.

Can you imagine the audacity of such thoughts ?Now that l have come back to my normal senses,l have decided to reveal these shortcomings in order to reclaim my rightful place as a writer and my destiny.This small step will lead to a gigantic future.One of the lessons l have learnt in this journey is to hold to a belief l know many writers can identify with.Deeply,knowing  “l am in this world,but ,l am not of this world”.The fact that l am living through my thoughts,and acting out by turning these thoughts into words  and sharing them through print or videos with the world.Now ,one modern habit l want to pick up is that of typing directly onto my computer.I want to discard the habit of first writing onto exercise books because the same is duplicating and time consuming.(No problem…laugh.It is old school mentality)

Fast forward,today…

Wait a minute.

What is this strange red signal at the top bar of my laptop?It has interfered with my chain of thoughts.I am really trying to figure out what to do.You can imagine l am almost going into panic mode.I stop,take a few long breaths and speaking to myself ,l decide there is no way all this vulnerability is getting lost because of a technical mishap.

So cheers.Much love and hugs from me.

(no excuses…)but…. l have to click…now…publish